Vibrator Techniques to Bring You an Orgasm

There are many different vibrator techniques you can use to give yourself an orgasm. Essentially though, to get the most out of your toy you will need to use foreplay, sensual and varied touch, comfortable positioning, and lubricant, just as you would when having sex with a partner.

This article breaks down each of these important steps and shows you how the varied vibrator techniques, that just like a good lover, will firstly relax you, bring you to an exciting arousal and ultimately the big O.

Vibrator Techniques to Orgasm

Always Start With Foreplay

There are lots of different vibrator techniques you can use to make foreplay really exciting and lusciously fun with your toy. By placing it on any part of your body, not just your genitals, you can use it to arouse your erogenous zones to help make you feel super sexy, whilst preparing your body for the heavier stimulation to come.

You can do this by putting your toy on a low vibrating setting and placing it against your nipples. Or place your toy on a higher vibrating mode and just let it lie on your abdomen. This is a good way to awaken your sexual chakra by letting the vibrations pulse deep down in to your body. Alternatively you can place it between your thighs until you start to feel that lovely tingling or throbbing sensation between your legs. The idea of these of course is to relax you and slowly get your mind and body in the mood.

Establishing Contact

Vibrators are built for vibrating but to really build your sexual desire, they are also really good to use firstly for rubbing. Use it to rub against your vagina and along your clitoris. Or rub and twist it around the opening of your vagina, dipping it only just slightly inside then rubbing it up against your clitoris again. The idea of these vibrator techniques is to really get you going, before you press that little switch and the vibrating begins. Rubbing is also particularly handy if you find you need a break from the vibrating. You can go back to rubbing to slow things down a bit, before building the momentum back up again.

Don’t Forget Your Fingers

Using your vibrator as above is great to get things going but you don’t always have to use these vibrator tips to get you in to the sexual swing of things. Your fingers are already your own inbuilt sex toys, so use them in conjunction with your toy to build your arousal. Sometimes it works best to start out with some regular fingering or fondling, or use your fingers on yourself, as your vibrator happily vibrates on the outside of your body.

Choose Your Position

It’s really important to find a position that is comfortable for your vibrator use. Try using it just when you’re lying on your back, or straddle, or lie on it, as if you are in doggy position. There is no right or wrong way or position to use your toy, so find what feels good for you and go with it.

Up The Tempo

You should really be aroused by now with these vibrator techniques, so it’s time to up the tempo and turn that little switch on. Start out on a lower setting and use your vibrator to touch your clitoris, applying more pressure if it feels good. Rub it between your vaginal lips. Press it against your perineum, the small area between your vagina and anus. Try holding it against your anus. If it’s a penetrative vibe, insert it into your vagina. Wiggle it around in there, explore your vagina. Try different depths of penetration. Hold it just at the opening of the vagina. If there’s a larger head at the tip of the vibrator, try very shallow penetrations with just the tip. Or ride it with full penetrative thrusts just as you would a regular penis.

Focus On Clitoral Stimulation

Focus on working your way up to a clitoral orgasm. You can use various vibrator techniques to do this from rubbing the vibrator up and down your clitoris, or rotating it around. Experiment with changing the setting/speed of your toy to experience different vibration intensity, as well as applying varying pressures to your clitoris, allowing arousal to build. Remember to relax, breathe and relish in the sensations and power of your body.

Think Internal Not Just External Vibrations

Although for a lot of women it’s always going to be mostly about the clitoris, don’t limit yourself to just external vibrations. Try pushing your vibrator deep within your body, or sit on it like in doggy position while it is on the highest vibrating mode as you slowly grind your hips around and around. It might be too much for some just starting out, but this can be one of the best vibrator techniques to encourage a vaginal orgasm. Or If you have a g-spot vibe, experiment with twisting it around in your vagina to hit all the different spots.

Lube Up

Whichever way you use your bedroom sex toys, remember that you should always include lubricant. Unless you are lucky enough to become very wet through masturbation, you will enjoy your toy much more if it effortlessly slips and slides, hums and vibrates easily with your body. Be mindful that they’re made of an artificial material, that you are rubbing against your body or inserting inside, so it’s best to be well lubricated so the whole experience is enjoyable. If you don’t have any lube, a bit of old fashioned saliva will help, however it will dry out very quickly on your toy.

Published by Rosie Raphaelle

Her mission is to show women how to have fun, safe and meaningful sex. Her sex tips articles has been published in many women's magazines.

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