Phone Sex: Learn How To Talk Sexy

Have you ever wanted to whisper sweet nothings to your lover before he comes home from work? Regular old phone sex can really spice up your love life if you know how to do it right, and it can also make your lover appreciate you that much more. It doesn’t matter whether it’s a sexy way of saying ‘I love you’ during work, or if it’s an alluring precursor to a hot date – phone sex is fun! Best of all, you don’t have to use your hands to do it, either.

Talking sexy and sexy voices are those that are a little bit lower pitched than normal. Try to mimic the sound of voices that you hear on typical phone sex lines for men – husky, deep, but feminine. Getting the right sound when you talk on the phone will make men’s eyes widen with lust. Sexy sounds can also be very sensual during phone sex. Soft moans that women let out while they masturbate also help get a guy randy. (Hint, hint.)

Try Out Phone Sex

Most women have a little bit of trouble figuring out what sexy things to say when they first try out phone sex. If you don’t know what to say, start by saying hello, and telling your partner how hot he or she is. Tell your partner how much you have been thinking about him, what you want to do to him when he gets home, and possibly tell him about your solo sexcapades. Men and women both love the idea of being someone’s fantasy, and these kinds of words can really make a guy’s week.

You might feel a little silly at first, but generally with a little practice you will start to become more confident with your new sensual voice and you will also feel a lot sexier while talking sexy. If you are really nervous and just can’t seem to get the words out, it’s a good idea to write down a few phrases that you want to say. Practice saying them, and the different ways you can deliver each line in front of a mirror. You will definitely laugh at yourself at first, but this is excellent preparation to talk sexy. When you know you have become better at it, you will be able to draw from all your excellent training and deliver sexy words and phrases over the phone at any time.

To get the most out of your sexy talk, it’s good paint a picture so speak, during your phone sex dialogue. Men are visual creatures, as it is often said, so give them something to visualize, and tell them what you are wearing. (Note: If you are wearing a raggy, mildewy bathrobe, don’t say that is what you are wearing. Instead, say ‘a sexy little negligee.’ It may be a lie, but it’s only white lie, and it’s definitely a lot sexier.) Use classic phone sex samples like telling them that you are lounging naked, that you just touched yourself thinking about them, and that you wish that they were there. You don’t have to go as far as extreme phone sex to get the desire effect. As long as you paint a pretty picture, men will admire the view through the phone.

Basically, use your imagination. The power of phone sex is that it lets you excite, entice, and intrigue men through the spoken word. There’s a little bit of mystery behind phone sex that makes it a little bit more edgy, and it’s a lot more intimate than sexting. After a steamy session, promise that you’ll please him even more when you next see him – it’ll be enough to keep you on his mind for weeks.

Published by Rosie Raphaelle

Her mission is to show women how to have fun, safe and meaningful sex. Her sex tips articles has been published in many women's magazines.

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  1. use your imagination. The power of phone sex is that it lets you excite, entice, and intrigue men through the spoken word

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