Lure Men With Female Flirting Gestures

Using sexual body language can be a lot of fun, especially when you become good at it. It only takes a few subtle female flirting gestures to grab a guy’s attention and have him hanging off your every move!


Female sexual body language usually starts with preening. We love to fix our hair, touch up our make up and most of the time we do it without a second thought. If you want to get noticed though, turn this already natural feline body language up a notch by purposely tossing your hair, or tucking it behind your ear to show off your delicate feminine skin and beautiful face. Or very sexily remove your glasses, polish them to perfection and then gracefully put them back on again.

Subconsciously these movements are like you’re saying , ‘I’m making myself look good for you, I want you to notice me’. And like a gravitational pull, men are naturally drawn to such female flirting gestures.

Displaying Your Body

We all know that displaying certain parts of your body will get extra attention but there are a few very subtle and very sophisticated things you can do to get yourself noticed and let him know you’re interested. A woman’s neck is a stunningly sensual part of her body and tilting your head to the side during conversation to reveal the nape will definitely have him thinking about running his tongue down it! It will also create a beautifully lean line from your neck to your collar-bone, down to the subtle hint of your cleavage.

If you want to be particularly naughty use sexual body language to lean right in during conversation and cross your hands together. Then discreetly use the inside of your arms to innocently push your breasts together, creating a bigger and better cleavage that he will no doubt pretend not to look at.

Draw Attention To Your Mouth

Drawing attention to your mouth is one of the strongest body language gestures for a woman to use. It’s a great gesture to play and tease him with because anything you seductively put in or near your mouth is going to have him fantasizing it was actually his manhood, being lovingly licked by your sweet luscious lips! You can be totally shameless with this sexual body language, and use it in various ways because he will definitely enjoy it.

Try taking advantage of your phallic lipstick, twist it out as far as you can and then slowly apply it to your lips. Or daintily each a piece of dark chocolate, brilliant against your red lips, take a bite and look him dead in the eye as you slowly chew it. Or look at him cheekily as you slowly lick your lipstick covered lips. Any of these will have him guaranteed melting right in to your hands.

Simulate Stimulation

Your hands are usually responsible for telling quite the tale when it comes to sexual body language and this is especially so when you have a wine or cocktail glass between them. By stroking your finger around the rim of your glass, you are indirectly showing him that you are interested in, or are entertaining the thought of stimulating him.

If you want to make this even more direct, imagine the stem of the glass represents his manhood. Slowly glide your fingers up and down the stem and as your conversation deepens see if you can gradually increase the speed as to which you are moving your hand up and down.

This movement is only very subtle and not as fast as if you were actually touching him, but if he gets the connection it’s sending him a very tantalizing message of what he might be lucky enough to receive from you next.

Luring With Your Legs

Not only are your legs extremely feminine they are also the gateway to your lady castle and while they are closed it’s like his personal challenge or mission to find the magic words that will open them up and get him inside. Teasing him by rubbing them up and down or slowly uncrossing one leg before pausing and then crossing them the other way is a sure fire way of subconsciously letting him know that you are more than up for the challenge.

Sitting crossed legged however while bouncing one leg rhythmically up and down and dangling your shoe off one foot is actually a very cocky and seductive move. It’s oozing a quiet confidence like you’re almost too comfortable with your surroundings and the company you are keeping. It’s almost like you’re saying ‘Yeah, ok, I’m here and I’m ready‚Ķ come and get me.’

Tie It All Together

The most powerful way to use female body language flirting is to tie all these together for one mega power move that will have him hanging off your every move. Sit upright in the back of your chair with your legs crossed but with your upper body open and pointing directly at him.

Leave one hand on the table playing with your glass, while your head is tilted one side as you play with your hair whilst reveling our neck. Quite simply, let your sexual body language do the talking and he will not doubt take care of the rest.


Published by Rosie Raphaelle

Her mission is to show women how to have fun, safe and meaningful sex. Her sex tips articles has been published in many women's magazines.

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