Blow Job Tips for Beginners

Blow job can be very daunting if you don’t know what you are doing but armed with these simple tricks you can blow your man away.

Blow Job Tips

If you’re worried about the smell – suggest a sexy shower or bath together first before blow job. Get a fist full of shower gel and wank as you wash! The slippery sensation of the gel will feel amazing on his penis. Give it a good rinse and you’re ready to go.

Approach the area slowly – don’t just dive into it head first so to speak. You want to work up a little anticipation: run your tongue down his belly, the area just between the hip and pelvis can be very sensitive. Run your tongue down and back up his inner thigh – he will be gasping with anticipation at this point.

Tease him with a few licks – as you work towards his penis try a few gentle flicks on the end of his penis. Run your tongue from the base of the shaft to the tip with a flick of the tongue on the end. The area on the shaft just below the head (the corona) is a real hot spot, flick your tongue sideways across.

Try the silken swirl – run your tongue around the head of the penis in a circular motion – think ice cream cone. If you can combine this circular motion blow job whilst gently sliding the penis into your mouth he will be in heaven.

Pulse suck – start out by flicking the head with your tongue then insert between your lips (make sure lips are well moistened) and alternate between soft and hard sucks – think of a Chupa Chups Lolly. Then pulse your sucking and slide the head in and out of your lips whilst sucking hard. Irresistible blow job.

Practise your ball skills – not many women realizes how sensitive and pleasurable the testicles are. Start the blow job by licking and circling with your tongue. The vertical line between the scrotal sac is very sensitive: flick up and down with your tongue. Slip one testicle in your mouth and very gently suck in a pulsing motion. All men differ on how much pressure they like on their balls – you can judge his reaction as to how much to apply. Don’t forget the perineum (the area between his balls and anus) this is a super hot spot, try licking or stroking with your finger to send him into orbit.

Stop him thrusting hard down your throat – hold onto his hips to control his movements. This will stop any awkward moments of gagging when giving blow job!

blow job tipsAvoid jaw ache – a big complaint of oral sex or blow job is that your mouth and jaw start to ache if it lasts to long. This is so easy to overcome: use a combination of hand and mouth for maximum effect. It’s like giving a hand job and oral at the same time: wrap your hand around the shaft and place your lips on the end, move your head and hand up and down at the same time. If you need a break you can just stroke his penis to give your jaw a rest before going again.

The sexiest technique in giving a blow job is actually to enjoy it. The more you look like you love what you are doing the more it will turn him on. And remember it’s not essential to swallow, have a tissue nearby and discreetly spit into it, he will be so post-orgasmic he won’t notice.

Published by Rosie Raphaelle

Her mission is to show women how to have fun, safe and meaningful sex. Her sex tips articles has been published in many women's magazines.

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