When it comes to sex – and particularly rough sex, you’ll only want to do what you feel comfortable with. Right? That’s understandable, and that’s why there are safe words and some such. But when it comes to the best positions for rough sex, some maneuvers, angles and positions are uncomfortable and allow for deeper […]
Author Archives: Rosie Raphaelle
Psychological Bondage
Bondage is not all about the actual restraints, or using the more obvious techniques such as physical control. There are deeper, more sublime methods that can render a word, a touch, or even a glance more powerful than the strongest cuff. The usual essence of bondage play is centered upon the idea of one of […]
Shedding Light on Candles
Candles in the bedroom can be such romantic, tender props. All the lights switched off, and then only a few strategically placed candles lit to cast those dim, scented and sensuous shadows to cloak you both as love is made with sweet abandon… Cute. But why don’t we vamp the scene up with something far […]
Breath Control Bondage Rough Sex
Breath control bondage is considered exciting and arousing for people who derive pleasure from the physical sensation of being deprived of oxygen. There will always come a time when couples or partners will decide that everyday sex can be taken to a whole new level. The suggestion to introduce rough play during lovemaking could come from […]
Vagina Worship: Dominating Role
In oral servitude or vagina worship there exist loads of play for stimulating arousal of the female genitals, involving elements of tease and denial by the female being “served” I heard someone say once that the largest sexual organ is still the human mind and its limited only by your imagination. This has never been […]
Total Power Exchange Rough Sex
Total power exchange, like many forms of rough sex and alternative erotic play, is great for enhancing sexual and emotional activity in a relationship. Thanks to the advancement of ideas and perceptions, people are finding new and exciting ways of expressing sexual freedom as well as finding inner validation especially with that special person in […]
Introduction to Orgasm Denial and Control
A couple who want to explore new fields of erotic expression could consider orgasm denial. This intensely erotic sex game is indeed most suitable to two people who know and understand each other well. They should be familiar with one another’s limits and strengths. Because frankly, you can’t control what you have no true knowledge […]
Introduction to Aftercare
Painful or traumatic experiences are not the only times people need to have some kind of help given afterwards, to allow them heal and deal with what they’ve been through. Even in relationships, and between couples who engage in rough sex and other kinds of intense erotic activity, there is definitely the need for some […]
Introduction to Light Bondage
Never mind the images which come to your mind whenever you hear the word “bondage”; it has now come to mean different things to different people. For that couple wishing to try something new and exciting with less of the leather and chains and more of the fun and games, then light bondage promises plenty of […]
Female Rape Fantasies
It’s okay to have rape fantasies. It’s just a fantasy, it doesn’t hurt anyone, it’s enjoyable, and you’re certainly not lending credence to actual rape. I’ve just finished reading an academic article by Critelli and Bivona in which the authors look into explanations for why women might have rape fantasy. As Critelli and Bivona note, […]